They’ve been around the block a time or two, so they’re experienced in relationships, and they may be better apt at dealing with relationship issues. A partner you can take advice from is important to your personal growth.Then again, they’re experienced, and their relationships may not have worked out in the past.“The younger and less experienced he is, the more open he’ll be in his relationship with you.”Be forewarned, though: Less baggage can also mean a lack of relationship skills, such as communicating and resolving problems and conflicts, says Melanie Matcek, a matchmaker and relationship coach in San Antonio, TX.
As a younger, or transitioning individual, this stability may be exactly what you need. You can be sure that he won’t play games like millennials, since he’s past his prime player years. Mature men have refined tastes, and that isn’t limited to his pallet. Advice and wisdom will be readily available from someone who isn’t your parent, but is equally wise. He can show you things you never knew possible, and you can teach him that new trick you learned in Cosmo. You won’t be dealing with the same texting, mixed signal bullshit that you’ve experienced in the past. If finances are a problem, this can only be a good thing. A huge difference in income can be an area of contention in any relationship, whether there’s an age gap or not.If an older man or woman is trying to buy your love, it’s unlikely that there will be any real love in the relationship.Sometimes dating someone who is too mature can be a real downer.
Someone who is older than you can be your teacher in a number of ways.Younger men are as adventurous outside of the bedroom as they are inside it, and they’ll bring out a more youthful, vibrant side of you, says Lori Bizzoco, founder and executive editor of Cupids “He will see you as smarter and worldlier, so he’ll want to please you, not just physically but emotionally and intellectually,” she says.“He’ll come up with creative date ideas that bring back romance and youth, and make you feel empowered and appreciated.”When you enter into a new relationship, it’s no secret you’re bringing former boyfriends along with you. “Men can have preconceived notions about women and relationships based on past experiences,” says Samantha Daniels, a professional matchmaker and president of Samantha's Table Matchmaking.After all, there is something innately sexy about a silver fox.He inevitably has a few years on you – professionally and personally.A longer span of time before he’s reaching for the Viagra.