Again, I tell myself that it should not be this difficult.
This explains the abundance of headlines throughout bi women's profiles that read "I AM NOT INTERESTED IN COUPLES! And when a single man emails me in an innocuous fashion but his profile indicates that he is only interested in bisexual women, I inevitably wonder if and when he is going to drop the threesome request.Now, I know I am just one girl, and this is by no means a well-researched or planned experiment, but I can't help but feel that there are consequences to checking the "bi" box.So let's discuss two popular sites, both of which you have probably heard of, and both of which tout millions of users, just waiting for you and a wound from Cupid's arrow.When signing in to for the first time, the first thing that appears is a banner that exclaims, "It's easy to get started!Whether they had initially checked "bi" or "gay," many women stated, "I identify as queer but picked [___] for lack of better options." So I follow suit.
It takes less than a minute to change my online sexuality and to add an honest disclaimer, or clarification, in my summary.The second option seems daunting, because, again, if you have ever filled out an online dating profile, you know it is a tedious, aggravating procedure. My profile now states that I am bi and looking for guys and girls who like bi girls. As much as I like to avoid stereotypes, I couldn't help but wonder how many gay women would actively search out bi women on a dating site.Even if a gay girl is open to dating a bi girl, even if she doesn't harbor preconceived conceptions about bisexual women, my guess is that to make things easier and more streamlined, she is going to search for gay women.Welcome to Girl Friends Meet, a new and exciting casual dating and social network exclusively for Lesbian, Bi-Sexual and Bi-Curious Women.At Girl Friends Meet you'll get a secure, fun and engaging online community to browse women in your area,interact, chat and share interests. You can chat, follow, like photos and even meet other women who share your same interests very easily.It's free to register, view photos, and send messages to single Bisexual men and women in the Minneapolis area!