This is the age of the blended family, and for every family, that carries a different meaning.TIP: When dating a single mom, asking the right questions and understanding each other's expectations can make a huge difference.
Find out about the custody arrangement of her kids and you'll know when she's free unless of course she's out with the girls!
It shouldn't be that hard to get her to pick you over them.
Here are some tips to help you get the most out of dating a single mom, or even to simply encourage you to give it a shot. You certainly can be a player if that is all you are looking for, but unless you know for sure that the single mom you are wooing wants the same thing, this could seriously backfire on you.
There are single moms out there actively seeking a ring on their finger, and if you play games with the wrong one, you will find yourself in a mess that you’d rather not be in. Don’t be fake Don’t pretend to like her or pretend you are interested, just so that you can have a fling.
Be flexible and communicate often, and she will find a way to show you just how big a priority you are to her. Be Considerate of Her Time The single mom is generally torn between her kids, her social life, and a million other responsibilities that she has no one to share with.
Given this, it’s a good idea to be a little considerate of the time in which she has to do all of those things.
A man who is sincere and shows genuine interest with no ulterior motive is any girls’ dreams whether she is a single mom or not. Don’t be fake, part two You can’t just be genuine with her, you have to be genuine with her children.
If it does get to the point where you meet the kids, be yourself once again. You don’t need to be a single mom to appreciate a little bit of romance, but the single mom will definitely appreciate the romantic attention you provide. Romance works best when it is unexpected and not obvious.
By taking care of this conversation early in the relationship, you will both save yourselves a lot of potential heartache, and time. Expect to Be Involved with Her Children Wow, have you made it this far? Most single moms or single dads are hesitant to take this step until she is pretty sure you are both on the same path.
Treat this occasion delicately, and treat it with the respect and appreciation it deserves.
Be honored that she is including you in the most important part of her life.