This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is really an amazing concept. and how guys really believe that they need to do it (or similar things) in order to get a woman's attention in a romantic way.
Anyway my question: You suggest that a date should simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which for all of the reasons you give makes perfect sense to me.
But once I've done the tea & conversation with this girl, do you have any suggestions for other dates where I can come across as the 'lover' instead of the 'provider'. Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating", but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner twice as much as you used to".
The C&F doesn't come naturally to me at present so I've taken your advice and am using the internet as a 'woman simulator' in order to practice.
I've had mixed results so far, I think a few took the teasing the wrong way as some of them would suddenly stop replying. The first time I went on this site I was chatting to a few girls and one of them ended up giving me her mobile and asking if we could go for coffee before I had chance to.
" and I came right back with "if you're gonna be that forward and flirty with me you could've at least done your hair up a little better" and then it was ON!
- I met some friends for happy hour and a very hot chick was sitting at a table holding some guy's hand.
and you don't need a lot of "date ideas" once you do. Anyway----to my amazing weekend: Saturday, I went out with the old girlfriend and busted on her and challenged her on many issues all night.
And now that I've avoided your question for a page or two, let me answer with this: I often take women to do "regular" things with me. My old self would have shut up and zoned out---not this time. It ended at my place and we had an amazing double session.
We talked about five more minutes and then I told her I had to go.
She asked me if I wanted her number so we could continue the conversation.
If a woman feels that powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with you... I would have melted and told her that she was the finest thing to step foot on this base... He just bent down unzipped his pants and practically handed her his nuts. I interrupted them while he was "dazed and confused" and told her "Actually they're looking at that big pimple on your forehead. She just glanced at him smiled and quickly turned her head to pay him no mind. I'm not a selfish person..I gave him your e-mail address and hopefully he'll get your system and realize what he's been doing wrong. Now make sure you keep it up so you're not writing me in 3 more months with the "She used the Trojan Horse De-Nutting Technique" on me. You have given me a good start by explaining attraction and what women want. It's the only way to quickly improve your inner and outer game.