In this crazy and fast-paced age of technology, we have lost sight of quality, real intimacy and conversation.
Fortunately and unfortunately, we have options of people to date online beyond anything we could have imagined.
If any of you are single dads, then you know that priorities shift when you have children.Some of these women will be both career women and single moms, at which they will truly be challenged with time to date you.The ball bounced back to his court and I ran to get it. I need to hear a guy’s voice, get a vibe and have some sense of his personality before choosing to meet.I have been labeled as “playing hard to get” or “difficult” with many online dating prospects, because I have made a clear choice not to meet a guy without a cool phone convo first.This does not mean she is not into you, it simply means the timing is off.
You may perceive her as playing hard to get, while she actually is impossible to get we were both still playing on that dating site daily.Now, there are always exceptions and last minute fun events or basketball tickets that come up, but we are focusing here on the beginning stages of dating, so humor me.My girlfriends and I have talked this topic to death and we have all said “no” to last minute dates and, of course, been accused of playing hard to get for it.Speaking of games, I actually have a guy who has been texting me for four months and we have never met. I’m beginning to think it has become a game to him to see how hard to get I really am. I will retire my online dating jersey before I will go out with him.Guys, this is a tough one and I have had a lot of time and experience to think about it.You may have spent a romantic weekend in Napa with a woman, then caught her online again on Monday morning. She may genuinely want to date around and keep her options open at this time.