Some immediately began asking about my sexual turn-ons, fantasies and other weird comments/questions.
It got to the point where any message at all would just annoy me.""I would get between 30 to 50 messages daily, and maybe two or three were normal conversations from normal-seeming guys.
I've decided that I'm better off alone -- e Harmony.com, and can get rich off someone else's money, not mine.""I got a stalker.
Men find most women reasonably attractive but spend their time writing only to the hottest ones. As for how this affects YOUR online dating experience?• The average female sender gets a 30% reply rate from the most attractive males. Once again, proving that attractive women are at the top of the online dating totem pole. First of all, count your blessings that you UNDERSTAND this.But when it doesn't, the experience can send you down the everyone-is-awful-so-I'm-probably-dying-alone spiral. I'd rather meet a great guy randomly and organically than deal with the constant rejection and exhaustion.""You just don't get that spark that you do when you know you like someone and it's instant and wonderful. It's like you try to put a face to the person you're talking to, but it just feels like this contrived entity.Despite its popularity, not everyone's experience with online dating is positive. ’ I would try to edit my profile to be what I thought guys wanted. You really have no idea who they are and what they're about or if you have any chemistry.Finally, you’ll see that since you can’t force people to write to you (since most men and women are chasing younger, more attractive people), ALL you can do is open up to others and improve the way you interact on your dating site. Looking at the pictures of their highly-rated and average males and females, I think I realized part of the problem.
Could it be that the responders to their questionnaires were rather young, and that’s why the “hottest” guys appear 18-20 while OK Cupid’s employees who look to be at least mid-20s were even considered semi-decent?The most attractive men get 11X more than unattractive men.To sum up, women find most men ugly, but write to them anyway.2) Women, on the other hand, rate 80% of men as below average.Let me repeat: It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.A friend forwarded me an article about looks on the dating site Ok Okay, maybe it didn’t blow my mind, but it did validate everything that I’ve ever said about online dating.