Make sure that you wear your best cologne, dress nice but not overly nice and make sure that it is something that brings out your best features and is flattering to you.
Dear Jessica, There is never MORE to talk about than when you know absolutely NOTHING about someone. Fear being uncool, and you may actually become uncool. Just know that the more you tie yourself up with worry, the less likely you are to be your authentic self. “I just figure that if I’m being myself on the date, and you don’t like me, there’s not much I can do about it. Your mom, your high school friend, your sister, whatever. However, your question is an important one, because it’s something that my coaching clients ask me somewhat regularly. ” And, as I see it, unless you’ve already covered the topics of his work, his family, where he lives, how long he’s lived there, what he aspires to, how he enjoys dating, and his various tastes in movies, literature, music, and travel, you should probably have plenty to say. The coolest people I know are those comfortable in their own skin. I can’t help but to think of a baseball player overthinking a big at-bat, or an actor freezing on an audition. My first book had come out and a prospect had gone out to get it in advance. When we were talking on the phone prior to our first date, she confessed that she was really nervous about meeting. Once you are out on the date you need to tell yourself to relax. If you breathe deep as to taking shallow breaths is going to help calm down your nerves and it’s going to lessen the tension in the air.Relish the fact that you are getting the opportunity to meet someone new. If you are feeling shy then come right out and let them know that you are shy sometimes and this is one of the times.Try to imagine yourself on your date having just a wonderful time.
You need to tell yourself that you are really going to love this experience.By doing this, you will avoid making your date feel like you have no interest in them and they are more than likely going to feel relieved and completely understand where you are coming from.Make sure that you do your best to focus on the feelings and needs of your date.Make sure that you go over everything that you already know about your date before you go out with them.This is going to make it easier for you once you are out on the date with them.One way to do that is to actually try to focus all of your energy on your date and thinking about how you can make them feel comfortable.