Once you're dating , wait until a little bit into the relationship to friend each other on Facebook, and even longer to friend each others' friends.
Dating is complicated enough on its own; when you add in the confusion of online dating sites, it can be just plain intimidating. There is a technique to navigating the virtual playing field.
This is likely because an initial message serves mostly to make your profile available to the other person.
So what's appropriate when it comes to sharing information in your online dating profile and via social media? "Your online self needs to match your in-real-life self." After all, you have real-life relationships with many of the people you're "friends" with online.2. Four out of 10 people typically don't associate with people with whose opinions they disagree online, according to the Intel survey, so when it comes to politics, try to keep the language neutral on Facebook and Twitter — unless you are so convicted that you would make the same statement in front of a crowded auditorium.3. While your professional persona may live on Linked In, and your casual self resides on Facebook, don't play Dr. People can't say, "I feel like I don't know this person," said Post. But the idea is to meet in person, not be an online pen pal, so get out there and go on a date. Don't make too many comments about physical appearance, especially ones that may be perceived as too intimate.
In our exclusive interview with Anna Post, the great-great-granddaughter of Emily Post, and a co-author ofshe told us some "golden rules" to keep in mind when online dating and when using social media in general. And don't talk about politics too much right away.
"If you play games and wait to get back to him, he may have already run off into the sunset with someone else," says Spira.
You need to show your interest right away; in the world of online dating you never know how many women one man has contacted, and how quickly the others may express their interest.
Taking the Relationship Offline The time to take your relationship beyond the boundaries of the dating site will eventually come.
And according to Spira, it should be sooner rather than later.
So, assume that your interest hasn't had time to open your message.
But if there's silence after two e-mails, cut your losses and move on.6.
Exchanging two or three e-mails is a good way to get a sense of each other's personality.
After that, have a phone conversation—trade cell phone numbers, never home numbers.
According to Spira, the tone should be uplifting and happy. "The problem is that because you don't hear people's voices, it's hard to tell if they're being sarcastic or being rude." If you write something and are afraid that it might be taken the wrong way, it's probably best not to post it.3.