If you find that you just can’t wait until your divorce is final to start dating again, this article provides a few “do’s and don’ts” of dating before you are divorced.
Divorcing clients are often lonely and stressed out, and they may be longing to meet someone new, feel desirable again, and just have fun.So, many clients decide that just one date can’t hurt.The purpose is to determine exactly when the relationship began, whether it is sexual, whether any marital property has been transferred to the new friend, such as by gift, how much money was spent on dating this person, and whether the spouse has said anything that could be used against him or her at trial.Even if everything is on the up-and-up, the result is a lot of unnecessary aggravation and cost.She said, in part: “I’m devastated that he wants to see other people. Dating others is not something that you should do while you are still married.
If he really thinks there’s a chance that we could save our marriage, then why does he want to date other people? I have tried to reason with him but he won’t listen.
By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who was devastated that her husband was pressing for a separation.
He had told her that he intended to move out next weekend, and she was bracing herself for an awful day.
This would buy her some time in the hopes that she could save her marriage and get her husband back home before he starting dating others.
If this didn’t work, the other alternative would be to set some guidelines about what was meant by “dating” others.
I suggested that she be very direct and calm when she had this conversation with him.