In our last season at Upton Park what better way to leave than with an FA Cup and Champions League qualification.
I’m nervous already, and either way, I know it’s going to be one hell of a match.
I like to go ahead and act a little weird on first base, just to give them a taste for where they’re headed if they stick with me. ” Second base is a park play date outside of scheduled activities. I’m terrible at small talk, so if I survive this phase with another mom, then I know she’s either desperate for a friend or really into me. At this point, you’re hanging out because you want to and you set it up ahead of time. He’s been a great friend, and I know he’s a very kind person.We all have our issues and cope with life differently.The manager has been a revelation, Payet is now a West Ham legend, and Antonio, Lanzini et al have all helped make this one of the best seasons I can remember.
But I have a slightly uneasy feeling that complacency will set in and it’s all going to go pear-shaped.
But really, Jessie and I should share a “JT” logo with him. I’ve been in relationships with guys both rich and poor, and a guys wealth does not interest me. ” As Jocelyn said today, “emotions know no project boundaries.” Is there anything that you want to do differently? I was texting with one of my best friends, Greg in Chicago, and he told me to just have fun with it. So many men and women accept this standard, it’s no wonder why half of all marriages end in divorce. Tim found it difficult to empathize with any of the characters in the play as there was no “hero” character. After the play, we wandered over to a bar nearby in the West Village for a drink.
Anyway, I feel like there was definitely a moment last night when we both said to ourselves, “Damn, are we actually doing this?! We went to our first couples therapy session together. He’s afraid of his commitment issues and doesn’t want to hurt me since he respects me. I learned early on that money does not make me happy. In therapy we talked about how I am extremely picky about who I date. I’ve wondered where the feelings actually come from, so I did some reading about it tonight. Are we so desperate for companionship that we’ll compromise our happiness? I found the complicated dynamic of these different personalities to be an interesting twist on the usual character development. Tim told me about his last serious relationship with a girl he dated in San Francisco when he worked for Apple. Things were getting serious between them when she had to leave for business for a few months. One part of the play stirred up emotions from something that happened in my past.
Sometimes I think the “normal” people are just people you don’t know well enough yet. We talked about relationships with parents, and how many girls have “daddy issues.” I don’t have dad issues. My parents married at a young age, and have a successful marriage. However, neither Jessie or I would have talked about this stuff so soon without having the therapist as a soundboard. I spent five years seeing a therapist, so this isn’t strange to me.
I wonder if that is part of the reason I am always trying to find the right person and why I feel like such failure when a relationship doesn’t work out. Jessie is currently in therapy, so it’s all good with her too.
It seems to me his dating style could result from this.